Yesterday i warned you guys 'n' gals about the lonelyness some people might feel on the time of the year that is aproaching fast, Christmas. Today, let's be selfish. It's all about ourselves...and one person more, opposite sex or not (uh...). I understand when people feel lonely. I feel lonely, specially when my wife goes shopping. I kill time watching cartoons, waiting for her...See, she is from a different culture than mine. A woman with really high values, moral, family orientated but independent, mind-opened and modern. Doesn't like cartoons. When i got to know her better, i realized how screwed up we are in the west and, hey, i melted!...So, what! Have you ever?
I used to say that love is a weakness, makes us vulnerable. I still agree, but realized it doesn't matter anymore. If you find her/him, you'll love to turn softy. If you don't, you got the wrong man/woman, work it out. Now, if you're single, either because you got your heart broken before and are affraid to try again (tsc,tsc...chicken) or you think you're too ugly (the only thing you can say you have is yourself), i got something for you! You should start looking, because someone is already looking for you. Think i'm kidding? I'll give you the chance to prove that i'm wrong.
Instead of looking into profiles, fotos and buying membershits, you go face to face, enjoying yourself doing something with another, for example, 99 singles, 50 man & 50 women. Couples are made inside, you talk if you want to talk, with who you want to talk and, hey, you might get lucky and meet your "other half" while, for example, having a wine testing event. Saves on search, browse, choose, try again, choose, try again, choose, contact, try again. Also it's already a date...with drinks...get it? Everyone you see is single around you. Or they're cheating with style.
I've told you before, you're too stuck in the past. You lose too much time reading chain-mails, even reading shit i write. Stop browsing galleries and profiles where you don't see the real self, the inner-self. See, i prefer you lie to me face to face, i'll see right away if you're lieing (or you're pretty damn good...). But writting, c'mon, that's so freaking easy. I can be the best husband any woman out there can find on any online dating site! "Honest, easy-going, hard-working young man is looking for a princess. Money doesn't buy true love and i so want yours. Don't drink and don't smoke, i want our future children to be raised in a clean environment. Hope to read you soon". No need for foto, how many hits you think it'd get in a day, with all that bullshit? But face to face?...they ain't that dumb.
Single Solution - Single Solution is a premium dating organisation offering events and online dating for professionals. Events provide a range of ice breaking activities and optional speed dating. Founded in 2002, they are based in London but also across the UK. Events average 100 people.
SlowDating.com - They run events in 25 cities, at the last count. They do all they can to support you and offer Speed Dating with an emphasis on quality. Speed Dating is a proven success story and is booming.
Grape Vine Social - They're the UK market leader in holding high profile wine tasting parties for people who enjoy wine, but don?t necessarily know much about it. They organise: Wine Tasting Dating Parties ? a unique spin on speed dating for sociable singletons, who enjoy an evening tasting great wines and meeting other singles. "General Wine Tasting" - for singles and non-singles alike, tasting great wines in a fun atmosphere with quizzes and games. Tickets are around £30.
Urban Social - They're regarded as the most stylish online dating service for young professionals in the UK. Urbansocial offers members a host of services, including online dating with picture profiles, secure messaging, great searches, events and much more.
Speed Dater - Europe's largest speed dating company. Enough said? No? They're in around 40 cities across the UK. They also have Speed Dater Online wich is the fastest growing online dating service.
Drop that ugly-duckly shit and go have fun. Just because you weigh 20 or 200kg, don't think there's no one out there for you. People are searching while having fun...what about you, when do you stop drooling at the screen?
HEY!!!
...go safe...